In-laws Article: Drawing Boundaries
March 17, 2009, 2:45 pm
Check out this article published in Hitched Magazine in February. (This article is exclusive to Hitched Magazine.)
Drawing Boundaries With Difficult In-laws
By Jenna D. Barry
Can you relate to this statement?
“My in-laws call constantly, drop by unexpectedly, criticize the way we raise our kids, and manipulate us with guilt if we don’t do exactly what they think we should. They often put my husband in a position to choose between being a great spouse and an obedient son.”
Most experts agree that the best way to handle destructive in-laws is to draw boundaries with them. The question is who should be the one to draw those boundaries. Some say that if the husband’s parents are the problem, then he– rather than his wife– should confront them so they are less likely to get their feelings hurt. Likewise, if the wife’s parents are the problem, then she should deal with them directly. That’s terrific advice in a perfect world. The problem is– yes, you guessed it– we don’t live in a perfect world. (Read the rest.)
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